Thoughts of a Therapist
A Family Mission to Africa: Passing Down Life Lessons to Our Children
At age 13, for our children’s coming of age ritual in our faith, they are presented with the opportunity to participate in a community service project. This mission to Kenya, is the second one for us to Africa. The first took place two years ago in Uganda with my...
When Does Teasing Within Families Go Too Far?
12 Tips for Keeping the Peace. Sometimes in families it is hard to decipher when teasing is playful or crosses the line. On the one hand it promotes joyful laughter, on the other hand, it can cause discomfort and could create a hostile environment. Every family has a...
Feeling Orphaned: What to Do When Parents Don’t Meet Your Emotional Needs
The societal belief is that children and parents should accept each other for who they are “no matter what”, should forgive each other “no matter what”, and should learn to get along “no matter what.” For some children this is impossible because they find themselves...
The Top Limitations With the Current School System That Deny Children What They Fundamentally Need
These challenges impact on the ability of our children to get their academic, psychological, social, and personal needs met when they are at school and otherwise. Because children spend most of their waking hours in school, these limitations are worth assessing for...
What I’m Sorry and Not Sorry For
I’m sorry for.. Assuming that I know what you needed, without asking you what you needed. Being distracted when you spoke to me because I have 1001 things on my mind which you shouldn’t have to suffer for. Rationalizing that I needed to be thinking about or doing...
The Greatest Parenting Mistake Most of Us Make
hrough my foundation, Thru My Eyes, and the trauma work that I do utilizing EMDR and other trauma-based treatments, I’m faced with treating individuals whose lives change instantaneously through death and other types of traumatic experiences. Typically absent for them...
